When most “dating gurus” and sex therapists spout their dating tips that often complicate the whole process with unusable theory and psychology.
I’ll skip that make brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the real world. In these dating tips, I’ll share with you the little known concept of “three types of women.”
There is a wonderful book you should read called “Winning through intimidation” by Robert Ringer. Get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original version published in 1970, and not the new “Feely delicate.”) Many People are put off by the title, thinking it’s “scare” people into giving what they want. This is not an issue, however. This is effectively protected against intimidation. It is also a fun read, full of funny stories and even cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it is a book for all dating tips needs to read, because the part that I will share with you, apply very well to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.
In the book, Ringer talks about three types of people in the business world and in my experience, it is 100% correct. Here they are. Type # 1 – This is the guy who is all “chips” and lets you know. This guy is “straightforward” about his intentions, what some call honest. Type # 2 This is the guy who says it is not out to get your chips and, in fact, he says he wants to do whatever comes to you. Then try to capture all the chips anyway. Type # 2 are the most dangerous type. Type 3: This is the guy who says it is not out to get their chips, and how sincere, but his clumsiness, stumbling or just pure incompetence ends trying to take them anyway (though not mean). How the “three types” translate into a useful trick for meetings?
And how all this relates to the success of attracting sexy women? Well, it has been my experience that women fall into three main types too.
Type # 1: it is simple to you about their intentions … if it is “fun friends”, or search for a husband, she is frank with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy.
Type # 2: the woman seems to be honest with you about what you want … but for some reason, she is out to get your money, deliberately break your heart or just pissed at all men, if one of my friends called “a cruel woman.” As the above type # 2, the key word here is “treacherous.”
Type # 3: is the woman who truly believes herself when she said they are looking for, but for some reason, bad things seem to happen around her … “sabotage” self when things go well, and eventually cause the emotional chaos of the men in her life, even if it does not. The result is the same as facing a type # 2, however, it is extremely important to pay close attention to the above dating tips.
Obviously, you want to spend time with the type # 1′s (in business and with women) and avoid the type # 2′s. If you pay attention and listen to what I call, map / model of the world, can usually identify the type # 2′s. You hear things like “my last boyfriend was cheap, they get out or buy things.” Or things like: “I went to his house and a strange car was on the way … it cheated on me. ” Here’s a dating tip that will save you time
money and headaches: when you hear things like that, run away quickly.
Type # 3 may be more difficult to identify. Usually takes much longer, and must pay particular attention. Listen for things like: “I was going along so well, and I do not know what happened.” Type # 3 are controlled by their “inner world” not in control. I therefore recommend usually starting any relationship as just “fun friends” so you can start having a clear view of your map or world model and identify its type. Much of what appears to be of type # 1 at the beginning actually identify themselves as Type # 3 is below the line. You can never stop paying attention, or have trouble. Dating advice as it can be applied and used in everyday life. Start paying attention to that and see how this is true. It is the difference between happiness and misery!
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November 5th, 2009
Don Dating
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